want this first article to be an introduction, a presentation of my views, beliefs, and purpose of my blog. I started writing a few years back, writing in my native language, but now, in 2020, I started over in English. In the beginning, it was a platform where I shared my views and thoughts about all kinds of topics and subjects. Now, as I have a clearer life vision, I successfully found the niche that I’m passionate about: The connection between our inner life (THOUGHTS) and outer life (PHYSICAL WORLD).
All my content will be centered around this subject, thus my motto:
Life Design From The Inside Out
Few words about me
I’ve always been a very positive and optimistic person. I didn’t realize until recently how much this shaped my life. At the moment of this writing, I’m 26, and I never had a serious personal issue or crisis. I never faced a challenge too hard to be stressing or devastating. I can gladly say that my life has been a smooth ride. Well, until last year…
2019 was an awful year for me. A hard year, but also a lifechanging one. Thanks to recent past events, I learned the importance and real power of our thoughts.
Last year I understood what I’ve done well and what my mistakes were in the past. I know now why I succeeded in certain parts of my life and why I failed in others. I learned that we are fully responsible for our life, and the biggest mistake we can make is to find excuses and blame others. I realized that we are the creators of our own lives, and we can make a change at any time of our lives. We don’t have to wait for miracles or traumas to achieve real, lasting change.
My Blog’s Message”
Even though I didn’t struggle too much until now, I can see struggle around me all the time. I can see more and more people around me having anxiety, health problems, financial issues, and so on.
The purpose of my blog is helping people change their life for the better by changing the way they think and how they make decisions (what I like to call life design). I firmly believe that we are solely responsible for everything we have, or we don’t have in life. Also, I consider that any time we want, we can make a 180-degree change, and create a new, beautiful life from the inside out.
The Scale of Control
Our life perception, the way we think, can be rated on a scale that shows us how much control we have, or we believe we have in our life. It would be nice to say that there is no right or wrong way, but unfortunately, this is not the case.
A happy and fulfilled life requires at least level 1 of thinking. Without the feeling of control, happiness can not be sustained. The purpose of my blog is to lift as many people as I can from level 0 to at least level 1.
Below I will present to you the more significant milestones one can have on the journey of life design.
Level 0: The Victim
The Victims are people who think that life happens to them and not for them! They feel that they are not in control, and they always wait for help and assistance. They believe that others are responsible for their well being. When something doesn’t work out, something bad happens, they always have an excuse and someone to blame for: parents, colleague, life partner, friends, the mayor, the government, the Russians, and so on.
The Victims don’t fight the status quo, and they don’t have the confidence to risk and try new things. The Victims often use the expression “This is Life” as an explanation, and end up in jobs that they don’t enjoy. This leads to an unsatisfactory life, stress, and thus, health issues.
My blog will be about how to get to L1 and L2. If you can relate to the Victim category, please browse my blog, subscribe to my newsletter, and come back often. I created this blog to help you achieve Level 1 and 2, and start building a happier, healthier life.
The in-between (from 0 to 1)
Not being a victim doesn’t mean that you are automatically at Level 1. You might not feel powerless and have high confidence. Still, until you acknowledge the effects of your thoughts, you are not on the executive level.
I think most people are somewhere between Level 0 and 1. I’ve been in-between until last year. You might be in the same shoes. You have a positive attitude and unconsciously create a life that suits you. However, until you are not consciously aware, and you don’t control your thoughts, you can easily drift off of your ideal life path. Being in-between, you are always dependent on external stimulus, which means you may lose control at any time. Also, health problems might appear at any time due to stress.
Level 1: The Executive
You are part of this category if you are in control of your life, and you take full responsibility for your actions. You know that thoughts lead to decisions, which then shape your future. You don’t find an excuse and someone to blame for every time something unfortunate happens to you.
Almost every successful people and entrepreneur is either on L1 or L2. Anything you might expect from life, there is practically no chance of success if you don’t believe that you are in control. If you believe that life just happens to you, you don’t ever take action. If you always have someone to blame, you don’t learn and grow.
Being an executive, anytime you get a hit, you stand up. You know that your future is in your hands and you can shape your life as you want.
Anyone can achieve an Executive level of thinking, without any spiritual belief. You can reach Level 1 even as a skeptic, as the road between Level 0 and 1 is paved with clear explanations and scientific facts.
Level 2: The Creator
Level 2 is all about spirituality. There are no proof or scientific facts, just ideas, and ancient theories. Teachings that tell more about life than science could yet prove.
For many people, spirituality is nothing else then compelling storytelling. Still, the ones who had wonderful, inexplicable experiences, are starting to open up to the idea that there is more about life than we know.
On level 2, we can mention the law of attraction, universal knowledge, building from the quantum field, etc. When you are a Creator, you know that your way of thinking can directly shift your reality. You can attract all the beautiful things you want, with your thoughts alone.
Level 2, for now, is intangible, but there are exciting theories that can link science and spirituality together. Some theories may explain all the magical things that people are continually experiencing. We will dive into this too in the future.
My Blog’s Content
The content of my blog will be split based on these levels of thinking. L
Content marked with Level 1 will be easier to take by anyone, including skeptics, as it will be based on facts and science. Here we will discuss subjects like behavioral sciences, neuroscience, the conscious and subconscious mind, mind-body connection, biology, biochemistry, epigenetics, etc.
Content marked with Level 2 can be a little harder to understand and accept by many people. Here we will often touch spiritual ideas and theories, so a more open world view and belief are necessary. However, people who achieved level 1, already had so many positive life experiences, that are open to other, scientifically yet unproven explanations.
Today, the gap between science and spirituality is vast, but I believe that this will change in the next decades. I think that in this century, spirituality and science will meet and overlap on some level.
Life Design from the Inside out means that you stop thinking about all the material, physical problems, issues in your life. You shift your focus inwards and start to understand yourself better. You will start designing your ideal life from the interior, and the results will shop up in your outer world sooner than you think.
I hope I caught your interest, and you will check back as more content will appear on my blog. Until then, I encourage you to subscribe to my email list, follow me on social media, and tell me in the comment section what your thoughts are.
- On what degree do you agree with me?
- Whit what level of thinking can you identify yourself with?
- At which level of thinking would you like to be?
- Do you have any other questions or comments?